The Graffiti On My Daughter's Door
I don't have a military background, but I often run my house a bit like a drill sergeant. I value order and cleanliness. That means it would typically be unacceptable to write with permanent marker on any area of any space in my home. So when my 17 year-old daughter, Jessica, came to me to ask if she could write on the back of her door in marker, I didn't hesitate to snap out a, No way! I was imagining a door of graffiti with peace signs, unicorns and song excerpts which aren't necessarily bad things, but we were talking permanent marker here. Rather than protest, she instead quietly offered she wanted to write on the back of her door so that every time she closed it (which is often) she'd be reminded of verses she needs to cling to. How can any mom say no to that? I think I may have even handed her the markers.
Most of the door displayed her favorite verses. And yes, there were song excerpts. Not lyrics from from Katy Perry or Eminem- rather from Matthew West and Switchfoot. Both songs are about living a life with purpose. On another area of the door she writes a word twelve times -something she realizes she struggles with- patience. And at the top she has drawn a butterfly, her favorite, as it symbolizes the beauty of rebirth.
My husband recently picked up a beautiful, new door. It's a 6 panel, solid-oak door he had in mind to replace the cheap one from Jessica's room. But the other day as I sat on the edge of my daughter's bed chatting with her, I glimpsed the old door and said a silent prayer of gratitude. Then I thought that the newer, nicer door could sit in the garage --indefinitely.
*Update - as of today, Jessica has since changed rooms and the door has traveled with her. No longer as a door-rather a work of art, and a daily reminder. She adds to it frequently. See new photo.*
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